Is It Ever Appropriate to Describe Sex Scenes in Christian Fiction?

When considering the portrayal of sex scenes in Christian fiction, it is essential to examine this issue from the perspective of both the reader and the writer. While it is a complex topic that goes beyond the scope of a simple yes or no answer, there are several guiding principles that can help navigate this delicate subject.

Defining 'Christian Fiction'

The concept of 'Christian fiction' can be approached in two primary ways. First, it can refer to the genre produced and marketed by publishing companies aimed at a Christian audience. In this context, understanding the target demographic and the values of the publishers is crucial. Second, 'Christian fiction' can also be seen as stories written by individuals who identify as Christians. For these authors, the decision to include or exclude sex scenes should be guided by their personal conscience, as Paul himself noted, 'Whether one man eateth or drinketh, or whatsoever he doth, do it all for the glory of God' (1 Corinthians 10:31).

Contextualizing Biblical Interpretation

The book of Song of Solomon is a fascinating case study in this discussion. While it is often viewed as an erotic poem, it also uses figurative language which can be more memorable and evocative than explicit descriptions. This is a testament to the diverse ways in which sex can be discussed within a faith framework, especially when considering the cultural context of a more explicit society today.

Proscriptive vs. Descriptive Approaches

Interpreting Song of Solomon leads to various conclusions, each of which can be classified as either proscriptive or descriptive. Here are some of the main viewpoints:

Proscriptive interpretation: This approach might suggest that sex should only be discussed in certain contexts, such as within engagement or marriage. Descriptive interpretation: This view might argue that sex can be talked about in a colloquial manner if it is done so in the context of engagement or marriage. Specific gender interpretation: Some might believe that communication about sex is only appropriate between a man and a woman in the context of marriage. Conditional interpretation: This view might argue that sex can be discussed if it does not lead to violations of a partner's promise or arousal.

Each of these interpretations comes with its own assumptions and definitions of terms such as 'good', 'holy', or 'pure'. It's essential to recognize that common definitions within some churches may include anachronisms. It's important to prioritize your own conscience in this process, as God retains the ultimate judgment on what He deems acceptable [cf. Romans 14:4].

Personal Struggles and Consistency

Personal experiences and struggles play a significant role in how one interprets these issues. The commandments against envy and adultery (including premarital sex in some interpretations) are relevant, but the most critical factor is one's own conscience. As Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 10:29, what matters most is 'whether your food commendeth thee to God'.

Conclusion

For those who find that reading or writing explicit material does not lead them to stumble, it may be permissible, unless a conscience issue arises. Personally, I find that while reading sex scenes may not lead to attraction or desire, it does help me understand others better. Some readers, based on their conversations, have found explicit material, particularly written material, to be beneficial in increasing their desire for their spouse. Therefore, it is essential to consider these insights and study Scripture to determine the approach that best suits your individual beliefs and values.

Keywords: Christian fiction, sex scenes, romantic engagement